You might have probably heard "anonymous" say... that when the student is ready, the teacher arrives...and when the teacher is ready... the student arrives... hmmm... aren't we all though... perpetually... students-in-progress...
It is also said, the teacher is there "within us"...or... maybe this teacher is actually WITH us... incarnated in the faces of "people" we meet in our thought-juxtapositions!
I still find this "synchronicity" or the way that life reveals its "scripted" sequence of events, magnificent in its perfection (even though this process has been triggered for me a few years ago, sometime after I started at
MNSHS)...
In a discussion with my amazing peer client the other day... he proposed that the coaching relationship is a dance... the beauty of which comes from the involvement and skill... of both people involved... but again... isn't it also a solo performance... where you "as a coach" are allowed within the safe space of its creation...
But to "DO" what exactly... to answer this, it was
AB again last night with her BEing...replying to my un-aritculated wondering..."it is but the pure old FAITH... trusting the process while it unfolds to perfection"...
And what this meant, to my step by step mind is:
The issue: An attachment to a specific outcome that massages our ego "I" CAN help!
The unwanted result: "I", is focused on performance, rather than on the process (insecurites, fears, perfectionism, competitiveness... all come in the way)
Solution: Replace the habit, give your busy mind something to do! "LISTEN" with all your senses to your teacher at the moment (yes you are the coach but to you, he/she IS the teacher at that moment... )
and till we meet again...